i guess this is what compromise means

hubs has been coveting an '88 jag for the last couple of weeks. today he finally made the date to see the car and make the purchase if everything checks out. i casually ask - soooo where is this money coming from? hubs - oh i meant to ask you to write me a check so i can go deposit it now to pay for it and you sure are pretty. mind you this changing the subject rarely works on me. then admits that his day trading in my account should be able to pay for it. we live life in the fast lane - only we drive beaters down it.